Far too often, players play big hands slower than they need to be played. I see over-slow playing happen all the time in live games and online free poker tournaments. I'll admit that I also make the mistake of trying too hard to trap opponents when a more straightforward manoeuvre would probably work best.
It is definitely dangerous to slow play big hands for many the reasons-not the least of which is getting outdrawn by your opponents. However, there is another even more important reason why slow playing is a bad idea. Slow playing is oftentimes less profitable than playing your hand fast.
Better Betting
If you want to build a big pot with a big hand like a set, you need to be betting. You need to raise pre-flop, bet on the flop, bet on the turn, and fire your last bullet on the river. In other words, you want to gradually get all-in.
You may think you'll scare away opponents with continuous betting, but this won't be the case if they hold a reasonably strong hand. Big pots happen when a big hand runs into an even bigger hand. If your opponent folds before you get all your chips in the middle, it simply wasn't meant to be.
What you don't want to do is scare your opponents away with ridiculously large bets or raises. Nobody will call you if you bet $800 into an $80 pot. Nobody will call you if you raise it up to $1000 after an opening bet of $40. You want to keep your bets and raises small.
Practice this approach on free poker games and free poker tournaments where you can get a feel for what's OK without messing it up bigtime with proper money!
You want to convince your opponent that he or she may possess a strong enough hand to stay in the game. You want your opponent to make mistakes.
You want your opponent to be pot committed. You can't do that with an oversized bet. You're basically declaring that you own the best hand.
There is also a downside to not betting and just checking. Obviously, you can get outdrawn on. That's a common concern.
However, checking also fails to build up the pot. You may eventually get your opponent to bet at you, but you he or she may just check behind-and thus, you'll be losing some profit from winning one less bet.
Exceptions to the rule
With most things in life, there is always an exception to the rule and there are times that slower playing is going to be advantageous to you. For example, if you flop a royal flush, straight flush, full hand or any other very strong hand, you are pretty certain that you are not going to be beat, so give your fellow players as much opportunity as you can to get their next best hand.
When playing against aggressive or loose players then its worth playing slow, as they are likely to bet as players check. Make the most of their aggressive play.
Yet, in most cases, you do want to bet out or raise. You want to build big pots slowly by betting every chance that you get. As I say practice playing free poker games and free poker tournaments sites where you can get a feel for what will work and what won't. That way when you get into a higher stakes cash situation you'll play it right and hopefully scoop it up!